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The Friends Who Shape Us

  The Friends Who Shape Us School is 90% friends, 10% math, and 5% grades or at least, that’s what a kid would tell you. Long after the algebra’s forgotten, the geometry proving things neatly tucked away somewhere in the back of the mind I’ll remember laughing with friends until cola fizz squirted out of my nose. The funny thing about in school friendships is that they’re not always big, dramatic moments. Sometimes they’re just built on small routines- sharing lunch, walking home together, laughing at inside jokes nobody else understands. It’s those little things that end up meaning more than we realize. Friends mold us into who we are. The people we associate with influence us in ways we may not even realize. I’ve adopted hobbies, phrases, even mind-sets just from hanging around certain people. They can motivate you to go the extra mile, help you up when the world puts you down, or remind you that life’s not that deep. Of course, friends are not always in smooth relation. Sometime...

Why Procrastination Isn’t Always the Enemy

  Why Procrastination Isn’t Always the Enemy We’ve all been there: a deadline coming up, a mountain of work waiting, and somehow, we’re scrolling through memes or cleaning our desk for the tenth time. Procrastination gets a bad reputation, and honestly, it deserves some of it. But I think it’s not always the enemy we make it out to be. For me, procrastination usually shows up when my brain feels overloaded. If I keep pushing myself without a pause, my focus just gets worse. Weirdly, procrastinating sometimes gives me that pause. Watching a random video or chatting with a friend resets my energy. When I come back, I usually work faster and sharper. There’s also this thing about pressure—last-minute stress, while uncomfortable, can push out creativity. I’ve written some of my best essays the night before they were due (not proud, but true). That ticking clock forces you to cut out distractions and focus only on what matters. It’s not the healthiest method, but it works in short burst...

Why Everyone Should Have a Hobby

  Why Everyone Should Have a Hobby Life can be quite stressful. People have to go to school, meet deadlines at work, take exams while the general pressures of figuring things out create an environment that seems to be all about checking boxes on most days. This is why having a hobby becomes extremely underrated. It’s that bit of space in your life that’s only yours, and nothing in it feels like a task that you “have” to do. A hobby need not be something extravagant; it can be strumming the guitar, sketching random doodles, cooking, or just sprinting around the neighborhood. The whole point is it gives your brain a vacation. For me, when I get too engrossed with studying, it’s claustrophobic; my mind gets stuck in some traffic jam. But the minute I switch to table tennis or reading a novel, it’s a complete refreshing process. The sheer break that hobbies allow notably does not have to do with being fruitful in the traditional sense. It isn’t a must that one wins a medal for one’s dr...

Why Failing Once in a While is Actually Good

  Why Failing Once in a While is Actually Good Nobody really likes to fail. I mean, who would? It feels bad, sometimes embarrassing, and it can make you want to just give up. But the weird thing is, failure ends up being one of the most useful teachers we ever get. Think about it. The first time you fall while learning to ride a bike, it’s horrible—you scrape your knees, maybe cry a little. But then you get back on, and that’s when you actually learn how to balance. If you never fell, you’d probably never figure out what not to do. Failure kind of works like that in everything. I’ve seen it in school too. Sometimes I bomb a test, and yeah, it stings. But when I go back to check what I got wrong, I notice I remember those mistakes way more than the things I got right. Like, failing literally forces your brain to pay attention. The thing is, people act like failure means you’re “bad” at something. But honestly, it just means you’re trying. No one who never risks failing actually grow...

Why Curiosity Matters More Than Talent

Why Curiosity Matters More Than Talent People love to hype up talent. You know, the kid who just “gets it” without even trying, or the one who’s naturally good at sports or art. And yeah, talent is cool, but here’s the thing: it doesn’t guarantee much on its own. What really makes a difference is curiosity. Curiosity is that itch in your brain when you just have to know more. Like when you finish a lesson and instead of closing your book, you go down a random rabbit hole on YouTube or Google just because you want to. That drive doesn’t come from talent—it comes from being genuinely interested. I’ve noticed in school that the most “talented” people aren’t always the ones who end up doing best. Some coast on what they already know. Meanwhile, the curious ones? They’re constantly poking around, asking questions, connecting random dots. They might not get it perfect the first time, but they usually end up with a deeper understanding. The world also changes way too fast for talent alone to ...

The Role of Failure in Personal Growth

The Role of Failure in Personal Growth Failure is never welcomed, it is something to be shunned very much avoided. To most people, it becomes a mark on their record, evidence of their weakness, a testament to their poor judgment. However, looking back and with the benefit of hindsight, most people realize that particular moments which were very developmental for them did not result from success achieved smoothly but rather from setbacks which made them sit up and think - made them adapt and grow. In reality, failure does not constitute the end; on the contrary, it turns out to be a turning point in that who we become overshadows what we achieve. Failure teaches humility. Success often makes people think that it was only their skills or intelligence that brought about such an outcome and a little misstep reminds them of their limitations. It exposes blind spots that need to be worked on. In this sense, failure becomes very much like feedback: harsh, yes, very necessary too. It does not ...

Why Your Personal Statement Should Tell a Story (and Not Just List Achievements)

Why Your Personal Statement Should Tell a Story (and Not Just List Achievements) If you’re applying to universities, especially competitive ones, you’ve probably heard it a hundred times: “Make your personal statement stand out.” And yet, every year, thousands of applicants make the same mistake—they treat their statement like a résumé in paragraph form. It’s tempting, I know. You’ve worked hard, collected achievements, joined clubs, won competitions… and you want the admissions team to know all of it. But here’s the thing: your résumé is already in your application. Your personal statement is your one chance to show them the person behind the grades and titles. The Power of a Story Imagine you’re an admissions officer reading 50 statements in a day. Most of them say things like: “I have participated in the Science Olympiad, completed an internship, and volunteered at a local NGO.” That’s… fine. But now imagine reading this instead: “It was 2 AM, and I was still awake—not because of...