Why We Procrastinate Even When We Care
Why We Procrastinate Even When We Care Most people associate procrastination with laziness. I did, too. In reality, the greater our regard for something, the more likely we are to put it off. That is what is so odd about it. The work we avoid for the longest time is that which bears the most significance to us. Importance breeds pressure. Pressure breeds expectations. Pressure breeds fear of failure plus the quiet nagging thought in your head that says, "This has to be perfect." That finally evolves into avoidance. You will do it in five minutes. In another five minutes. Tomorrow. Not because you don't want to do it; but because you want to do it right. I have seen this trend in my life. Tasks that do not relate to my well-being are completed with the least delay. Those that concern my future, my goals, or my self-worth? Those are the tasks I overthink. I keep waiting for the ‘perfect mood’ and ‘right time’ to come. It never does. What has been of help is the modificati...