It’s Okay Not to Know What’s Next

 It’s Okay Not to Know What’s Next

And everyone loves asking it, “So what’s next for you?” To which sometimes I have an answer. Other times…I don’t. And for a while, that used to bother me. It felt like everyone around me had a plan — dream schools, dream jobs, dream timelines — while I was still piecing mine together.

But I’ve learned it’s been a while since knowing everything isn’t possible right now doesn’t make you behind. It’s not like everything in life runs on one schedule, you know. Some people learn what they love at an early age. Some people take their time and explore—which is also perfectly fine.

One can very easily be lost in a world that breeds certainty. However, the case is that the middle – not so very sure of what’s next portion- is where you learn the most about yourself. You try new things, fail a bit, succeed a little, and slowly, things start to make sense.

If you know what you want already – awesome. But don’t worry if you don’t; you update yourself, and that’s what matters.

So the next time someone asks what’s next, it’s okay to say, “I’m figuring it out.” Because honestly, so is everyone else — they just say it with more confidence.

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